Family, Traditions And The Structure Of Society In Urums

Urums are Orthodox Turks who live in Donetsk State of Ukrain. Their family construction, traditions and traditional applications resemble the other Turkish people who live in Anatolia and its surroundings. In this society everybody is tied firmly to their customs and usages and everyone is responsible to each other. Women are the closest defenders of the tradition and they live introverted life. Somebody who joins the family has to learn and accept the rules of the family. The children are well-educated. During the wedding feasts, different games and punishments which force bridegrooms are applicated. Games at wedding feasts resemble Crimean Tatar Turks’ games. These games are Kaytarma, Yarım Ava, Agir Ava, Sirtaki and Bogdanka. Game Agir Ava is usually played by older people. Henna night and henna songs are like in Anatolia. Baby and birth incidents bring special delight about the people. Godmother and godfather are the people who must be respected as like as “kirvelik” case. Salting tradition of new-born babies is like in Anatolia. They have wail tellers at funerals. Deceased meal is served during funerals. Deceaseds are mentioned and incence is prepared on certain days.

Keywords

Orthodox Turks, customs, folk dances, lament ceremonies, birth traditions,wedding ceremonies.